Am I weird?

This is going to be a quick blog, only because I'm bored at work and getting ready to go to lunch with one of my few friends here in the office. However, there is one things I've been thinking about lately:

Am I weird for being friends with most of my exes?

I know this really isn't much of an issue, but lately a few people have been a little weirded out by the fact that I am rather close and friends with most of my exes and some guys I've been semi emotionally and sexually involved with (I know... TMI). Is this really a weird thing? Are there not many people out there who keep close ties with exes and former flings? Am I in the minority? Don't get the wrong idea -- when I say I'm still close to my exes/flings, it doesn't mean there is still lots of sexual tension or intimate correspondences. I'm just saying many of these persons are now close friends of mine. I still talk to many on a regular basis. We share stories with each other and relate to one another about everyday happenings in our lives. Hell, some of my exes open up to me about their current relationships and/or sex lives and I have no problem with this. I'm just friends with these guys. I think it's because at one time I really opened up to and trusted these individuals and a lot of this trust still remains. The other day two separate guys told me that they think it's weird because they tend to cut off all ties with their exes. I can honestly say there's one ex of mine I could care less about communicating with or seeing any time in the future. Other than him, I still consider many of my exes close friends and confidants. Is this really that weird??

Well, it's now time for me to venture to a delicious Mexican restaurant (today is my "bad food" day... don't hate).


Signing out,
Me